About Emily J.

When I was 3 years old, I asked my mom to teach me how to read.  Thinking I was too young, she told me that we could start learning when I was 4.  To her surprise, on my 4th birthday I said, “Mom, I’m ready to learn how to read now!”

I’ve been reading non-stop since then.  My tastes have gone from the Nancy Drew series, the Little House on the Prairie series, and Mary Higgins Clark mysteries, to Wallace Stegner, Willa Cather, Ernest Hemingway, and Thomas Hardy.  I studied English (literature and editing) in college as both an undergraduate and graduate student.  Novels are my first passion, especially anything “classic.”  By that, I mean those canonized and important books by dead white men.  I am most drawn to the modernists and the realists, both British and American.

Despite my love of this literature, I found a new passion for forgotten female novelists of the modernist era (1914-1950) while writing my master’s thesis on Dorothy Whipple.  She is one of my favorite authors, despite Virago’s use of her work as the least important type of novel they would publish.  They often called this the Whipple line.  Many female novelists have been forgotten, but thanks to Persephone Books, these women are being republished and remembered.

I also love to write.  I spent the last few years teaching English composition courses at a university near my home.  I enjoy students, and hopefully I convince them to enjoy writing.  I am now in an English Ph.D. program in the Theory and Practice of Professional Communication.  My goal is to become a full-time, tenure track professor someday.  I have been chosen for a research fellowship, so my teaching is on hold while I focus on my school work and research.  I’m also a mother of two little girls.  They keep me busy and happy.

I have been published previously in Sunstone, Indiana English, and Compendium2.  I’m always working on some sort of writing, so this blog is a way for me to self publish and to hone my skills.  I recently spoke with a senior editor at Ms. Magazine about becoming a writer; her first advice to me was “start a blog.”  So, here I am.

110 thoughts on “About Emily J.”

  1. Hi Emily,
    Thrilled to have found your blog! We have a lot in common, it seems — from literary tastes, to writing, to teaching writing, to being moms while trying to do all of the above!

    I discovered Persephone Books last summer and fell in love. If I had the money, I’d take out a perpetual subscription. You’re the first person I’ve “met” who knows anything about them.

    Looking forward to exploring your blog and hopefully chatting about books and writing now and again.

    And might I add, I love your name….sounds like a heroine from a 19th century novel.

    Cheers!

    • Angela,

      Thanks so much! I like your blog, too. I was drawn to it because of the name Persephone. I wondered if you had chosen it because of that publishing company, and sure enough, you had! I’d love to order their books regularly too, but alas, they are expensive. I have found some used and older copies of some of the titles on Amazon and such.

      The other funny thing we have in common is our blog themes. Chateau. I guess great minds think alike! I look forward to getting to know you better through your blog.

      Thanks! :)

  2. Emily,
    Well, actually…..the blog name is a little more personal than the Persephone Books….it has to do with my novel. But if the title called their books to mind and caused you to come by and take a look, then all the better! One writer I know told me that certain books have a way of finding you. Perhaps blogs are capable of the same.

    I love Chateau! Several other writers whose blogs I read use it, too. There is something artistic and literary about it that beckons the writerly minded soul……

    Looking forward to chatting soon!

  3. Congrats on Freshly Pressed and good luck with school.
    I write about books- and other topics–
    currently reading Alice Hoffman’s The Dovekeepers and loving it.

  4. I had English as an undergrad degree, and I am currently taking up my Masters in Literature. I am happy to find this blog and I hope you would let me quote you as one of my references in my would-be critic papers. Salute.

  5. Hi Emily,

    Awesome blog , i liked it so much

    http://cgvalley.wordpress.com/

    please do visit my blog too mam i wish you live long , nice written

    sorry emily for my english please post some comments on my blog too , i m newer in blogging and of just 17years old.

    Cheers!

  6. what a lucky person you are, emily!
    to have a chance of actually being paid to do what you love is my dream, too.
    and reading? why, ever since i was in junior school here in the uk (around age 10yrs), ive always loved reading. to me, it offered an escape, as we were not well off and had to save every penny to survive. but being in a library was heaven to me, opening up a safe, secure world for me, and for free, too!
    best of luck in your endeavours, and pls, more about youre reading and have read!

  7. Emily I came across you blog by chance, as I was looking for other like-minded readers. I love your posts, lists etc so much so in fact I have nominated you for a VERY INSPIRING BLOGGER AWARD. Please visit http://glamaross.wordpress.com
    keep posting. you rock!

  8. Hello! I have nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award.
    Check out the link:http://diaryofanewife.wordpress.com/2012/05/26/the-versatile-blogger-award-goes-to-me/

  9. I nominated you for a Versatile blogger award! Congratulations and keep up the great work! http://newsofthetimes.org/2012/05/30/two-more-awards-such-a-bounty-of-appreciation/

  10. Oops, you just got this award! Oh well – you must just be THAT good. :-)

  11. Little House on the Prairie, eh? =) Maybe I could interest you in a review of my book? It consists of what “they” have titled poetry and prose but, what I like to call “short-short stories” =) Here is a link to the sample that amazon offers free:
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0985154829/ref=sib_dp_kd#reader-link

    If you like that and wouldn’t mind a review, email me for the entire review copy.
    Looking forward to hearing from you!
    Kellie

  12. Hi Miss Emily! I think I may have emailed you twice as my contact form had an address I do not use. From here on, please contact me at my: magicinthebackyard@yahoo.com address. Thanks again!!!

  13. Hi, I came across your blog & I fell in love right away. Probably it’s because of how you entertain all the comments you receive. (not all bloggers do that)

    I just started my blog, so it’s still brand new to me ^.^. I’m also a writing teacher in a University, somewhere in Indonesia, but, of course, I’m not as proficient as you.

    Honestly, I utterly struggle in being a writing teacher. My students keep making the same mistakes always & always :D I see very little improvement (is it? not even sure hehe) I sometime take my quite moment to think what methods should I use. I’ve exerted lots of efforts to guide & entertain them. I think i’m missing something here, can you help me figure out?

    I really need your advice how to help them improve their writing skills. For your information, Indonesian students consider English as their foreign language not second. So if ever you visit my country, make sure you bring an English-speaking guide. ^.^

    Looking forward for your amazing advice!

    • Thank you! And I don’t know if I have any “amazing” advice, but I have written a few articles on teaching and techniques I use to help with comprehension and thesis statements. Look on my “Publications” page. One is about annotation, which has helped my students immensely, and one is called “thesis math.” I hope those are helpful to you. It is hard to find the right balance in the classroom, but sometimes it just depends on the dynamics of the class and the students. I have had really stellar semesters and really hard, long, and boring semesters. Good luck! I am glad we found each other!

  14. My prediction is right; I’ll get ‘blessed’ advice from you. Hope you’ll always ready to attend to my queries in terms of writing ^.^ Revisiting your blog is beyond excitement!

  15. I nominated you for a Versatile Blogger Award! :)

  16. It’s terribly un-original seeing as you’ve already been nominated, but I too have nominated you for a Versatile Blogger Award. Thanks for a great blog! :)

  17. We just wanted to say, you have ‘One Lovely Blog’ :D …. Find your nomination here… http://easyondeyes.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/ooooo-and-were-lovely-too/

  18. Emily, you rock! This is one of the coolest About pages I’ve ever read. Congratulations on the fellowship! It’s always inspiring to hear the ‘start a blog’ advice, and I really think she’s onto something… ;)

    I love seeing a writer’s writer (is that a thing? If not, can we just pretend it is?) out and about in the blogosphere. And thank you so much for including me in your Blogroll – what an honor!

    • Ah, thanks! Those are some serious compliments considering how great of a blog you have. I LOVE reading it. I am more than happy to have you on my little blog roll!

  19. I also love to read, and to write, and so I have started, with the help and support of some friends, to invest more into my blog. I’ve written a lot of book reviews in the past 6 years, and I’ve written a lot of stories, etc. Like one of your readers said, I’ve learned that responding to comments creates reader loyalty, so I always try and do that, too.

  20. You will do well. I predict the PhD program will be a piece of cake for you! Have fun.

  21. I always enjoy what you write and I nominated you for the “One Lovely Blog Award.” Check out the details here: http://thecoffeeclubandme.wordpress.com/

  22. I’m one of your followers :)
    There’s this “One Lovely Blog” award thing, and I’ve chosen your blog as one of my nominees! Check it out here: http://venomsblog.wordpress.com/2012/07/27/one-lovely-blog-me-oh-stop-it-you/

  23. I’ve nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award :D Click on this link to see the rules http://mystudentstruggles.wordpress.com/2012/08/06/the-very-inspiring-blogger-award/

  24. Hi there!! I love your blog and I nominated you for the Booker Award! Hope you will play along! http://newsofthetimes.org/2012/08/23/travel-photo-of-the-year-contest-and-the-booker-award/

    • Wow! Thank you. How nice of you to think of me. I just love your blog, and I have been so grateful for all of the kind words and moral support from you. You are such a wonderful person!

      • Thank you!!! Of course I think of you immediately!! I would love to see your list if you have time to participate but don’t feel obligated! Thanks for reading and joining in the discussions!! And for the kudos!!

  25. If it isn’t too much trouble, would you mind perusing this page from my blog http://sumanraziq.wordpress.com/the-works-of-an-idiot/ ? I would love the opinion of a talented writer such as yourself! Your opinion will be much appreciated.

  26. There are many great things about your blog – but I also appreciate that you respond to every comment. Yours is the only blog I return to because I KNOW you have responded to my comments. I can only imagine that it must be very time consuming to read and respond to every comment, but I think it’s very awesome! In a world of computers and blogs sometimes the “community” can become very impersonal. With only a small picture behind the words, I think it is sometimes easy to forget there’s a real person out there. I think your efforts to respond to your readers comments changes that!! You’re an inspiration and I’m so proud that so many of your dreams have come true. It’s clear to see that it hasn’t been easy, but hopefully that makes it all the more rewarding! I feel like I can already say…”I knew you when…” :-)

    • You’re too kind, Ash! I seriously doubt your last statement, but I appreciate the sentiment all the same. I am glad you read. It keeps me going knowing that people are reading, especially people I love and care about and admire.

  27. Hi Emily,
    I am getting in touch on behalf of Eventispress, a small publishing company in the UK. We are proud to announce the launch of our first novel: Ancasta, guide me swiftly home; a vivid historical romance set during WWI written by Diana Jackson. We are looking honest reviews; would you be interested? I would be happy to send you more information, no strings attached, just drop me a line at ella@eventispress.co.uk.
    Ella @ Eventispress

  28. Dear Emily, Fair enough! Thank you for taking the time to respond. In case you are curious it is available on Amazon (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ancasta-Guide-Swiftly-Riduna-Series/dp/0957252005/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1351862044&sr=8-1).

  29. It’s great to read about how much reading has shaped your life.
    I would like to nominate you for The Booker Award as I think your life is wrapped up in books too :)
    http://emilysbooksforbreakfast.wordpress.com/2012/11/12/the-booker-award/

  30. It is pretty amazing that “you entertain all the comments you receive” to quote deborachaterin. You are more than generous, and kind, with your time. I feel that you will influence far more than your “regular” students, by doing this blog. Not many people are so giving, much less as kind as you in your replies. Reading is something I’ve always loved. I, too learned to read at age 4. Writing is something I’ve always wanted to do, but really don’t have the combined knowledge, wit, whatever else it takes. But I still like to try when I have thoughts that I feel like sharing. Not putting myself down, but stating the truth: what I write comes off flat, trite, and mundane. I thought when I retired I might take some classes in creative writing, but by that time I just wanted to enjoy inspiring my offspring, if possible. You don’t have to respond to my self-critique…would embarass both of us. Anyway, let me just say that I take real joy in reading really good writers! I love it when words well used just blow me away! I’ll be checking back with you often because I value your suggestions.

    • Wow! Thanks for the kind words. I enjoy interacting with people on my blog. I think of writing as a conversation, and if nobody were commenting, then I wouldn’t get to have that conversation. To me, that makes it all worthwhile. Thanks for reading my blog!

  31. Hi, just popped in to let you know that I have nominated you for the Sunshine Award for “bloggers who positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere”. See http://heartandahalf.wordpress.com/2012/11/23/an-award-for-moi/ if you’d like to accept. If not, you have a nice mention on my blog anyway!

  32. Sue Bergin said:

    Emily — I know of you from Feminist Mormon Housewives. I realize your interest is mainly in fiction, but perhaps you would be interested in my new nonfiction book that will be released on December 11. Called “Am I a Saint Yet? Healing the Pain of Perfectionism” (Cedar Fort), it speaks frankly about this problem in the LDS subculture and about my own struggle as a recovering perfectionist. I can send a long a PDF if you’re interested. Best, M. Sue Bergin

  33. Hi
    I have nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please visit http://wp.me/p1jxzE-6u to review my post.
    Thank you

  34. I’ve just had a look through your blog and read this particular post too. I think it’s super cool that you’ve been published and you clearly have a lot of experience behind you.
    I’m brand new to wordpress and was wondering if you have any advice on how to become a little bigger and gain followers? I feel like I’m writing to myself at the moment, lol. Any advice would be much appreciated!
    And I really hope your blog gets you to where you want to be and you become a writer. Good luck!

    • Thank you. I would say keep writing. I wrote twice a week for five months before I had a lot of followers. Getting freshly pressed also helps. The more you write, the more chance you have of that and of others seeing your posts in the tags. And you should write for yourself and stay authentic. It is worth it even if only a few people are reading. Good luck!

  35. Hi Emily dear,
    Been a while never seen you around. Hope all’s well.
    Just to let you know how much I adore your book-blog, I’d love to share this book award with you.
    Check it out here,
    http://amidstbooks.wordpress.com/2012/12/22/the-bookeraward/

    Keep reading! Keep reviewing! Enjoy! :-)

    -Asha

  36. Koko the Gorilla said:

    I’m so glad I found this article. I’m coming to grips with my past as a piano playing puppet of a Tiger Mom. There are startling similarities between your account and my own memories of my relationship with my mom. I am a conservatory trained classical pianist. So was my mom. I endured her in your face verbal and emotional abuse for some 25 years, clawed through music school well past burn out,stayed the course for economic reasons by teaching music and now–nearing the age of 40, I am throwing in the towel. I have decided to sever my relationship with family and I plan to finally get off this insane path ( dead end pursuit of respect/validation from a pathologically judgmental/envious mother) and find something else to do. You were wandering around without direction in college. I am now prepared to find my way at the half way point of my life. The moral of the story is: Don’t kid yourself if you are a Tiger Mom’s kid. Cut your losses if you have the resources! ASAP! You aren’t going to receive credit from anyone ( trust me, nobody usually has a clue what is going on regarding your heroic efforts to try and try again and do the “honorable” or “responsible” thing such as stoically sticking with an occupation that you don’t like and sucking it up so you don’t risk failure or shaming somebody by taking an unconventional path). You will only lose your precious youth and time, your energies will go down the black hole of psychological conflict and finally the parent will be utterly oblivious to your suffering. She/he won’t give you even a drop of credit for all you did to show face for them. To them, all the good things you do for their sake is “a given”. This is how they establish psychological dominance over you, and own you if you let them…

    Your article is so powerful and honest and I’m glad you challenged that monstrously N famous author. The only reason why people respect the Tiger Mom is because they believe the end justifies the means. Let’s see what her own daughters have to say when they get a little older. But it’s possible that she might succeed in creating clones of herself, who will perpetuate this style of parenting. I’ve seen so many casualties, both overt and covert ( the covert ones are ticking time bombs, but they look successful on the outside)

    Few of us can completely break the cycle in this status obsessed zero-sum game we play. I’m sure even I may have residual traits passed down, so vigilant self-awareness must be cultivated so I don’t accidentally do what mom did to me, which was to “break my spirit”. ( she said this out loud to me too, it was her deliberate intention to destroy my self so I’d be nothing but an extension/status proxy of her. Creepy! Oh , by the way, some of these narcissists have incredible reputations in their communities for being wonderful Christian people, like my mom!)

    • It sounds like you and I understand each other. I like your articulation of the psychological effects and the way that others don’t realize how pushed, prodded, and guilty one feels as the daughter in this situation. I was thinking this morning about how another way that side of my family controls is through disallowing agency. If I refuse to be a victim, then I am accused of breaking up the family or ruining relationships, when the truth is that their abuse is responsible for that. I shouldn’t have to be a victim to be accepted, because that sure isn’t love. It’s conditional, and I am done! I am glad you are done too and I hope you find peace and happiness in pursuing your own dreams and in being who you really are, not who others say you should be.

  37. You are so very gifted in your writing and reading. I’ve nominated your blog for a Reality Blog Award. All of the pertinent information is on my blog. See you there – Ilene

  38. Hi Emily,
    You are doing really great. I’d like to see if your interested in writing for out start-up magazine. Take a look or send me an email for info. william(at)bookkaholic.com.
    http://www.bookkaholic.com/write-for-us/

  39. Emily, I thought you’d like to know that I’ve just bought a book after seeing it on your bookshelf! I finished reading your latest blog post, scrolled back up to the top and one of the titles on your header picture caught my eye (even though I have seen that picture lots of time before). It was “The Sunday Philosophy Club”. I looked at the description on Amazon and thought it sounded interesting so I went ahead and bought it, without looking at the reviews. I suppose you could say that being on the bookshelf of Emily January was a good enough endorsement of the book. ;-)

    • Ha! I love it. I hope you like it. I am a fan of the simplicity and warmhearted nature of Alexander McCall Smith’s books. This one features a woman editor of an academic ethics journal in Scotland. Sounds boring, but it really is not. Enjoy!

  40. Hello there!

    I’ve nominated your for a Liebster Award; a fun way for bloggers to help each other out by promoting each other! Check it out! :)

    http://dillydallygirl.wordpress.com/2013/03/10/the-liebster-awards/

  41. Hello Emily, I have nominated you for The Best Moments Award! I invite you to stop by my blog and see what it’s all about. Have a fantastic day! :)

    ~ Oloivia

  42. Hi – love your blog, love your life. You sound like a literary soul-mate! I really like how you’ve laid out your blog, especially the “my favorite posts – start here.” Good idea! I’m following…

  43. Hi Emily.
    I had to take a moment to say I really enjoyed your Blog about Ideas in the shower!
    I also have a busy and fast paced life style, I can totally relate.
    I wish you all the best in your Blogging! I’m just starting out, day number one was today.
    Jennifer

    • Congrats on starting your blog! My advice, although you did not ask for it, is to create a schedule for posting and stick to it! Good luck. It is such a fun journey.

  44. Hi, Emily. I just came across your blog on Freshly Pressed. I plan to stop back by here to take a peek at your different pages when I have a bit more time…so I am now “following” you. I love to read and write so I was very interested to see your blog. Blessings!

    • Thanks! It is a pleasure to have you here. I always enjoy meeting nice people and book lovers because of this blog. It is such a great way to find those with similar interests and to share ideas.

  45. Hi Emily. I just stumbled upon your blog by accident but I’m so glad that I did. I love it!

  46. Hi Emily,

    I am posting a blog entry this evening and in it I am linking to your post about blogging etiquette. I did want to be sure and mention this to you, and to thank you again for sharing what you’ve learned.

  47. Hi Emily,

    As a complete newbie to blogging, I was really happy to come across your blog with such great ideas. Thank you

  48. I have nominated you for The Bouquet of Three Award. The rules are posted on my blog. You deserve it!

  49. I forgot to tell you to check out my blog; like you, I’m a voracious reader of a variety of genres.

  50. HI Emily!! I nominated you for the Liebster Award. I love your blog!! I hope you accept ……Keep Writing!!!

    http://valleygirlgonecountry.wordpress.com/2013/05/22/flowers-and-a-liebster-award-wow-what-a-morning/

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